As most of you know probably already know, I recently said goodbye to college and hello to the "Real World." No, I do not mean the MTV reality TV show that is older than I am. The Real World is the place I find myself now: adulthood. Adulthood can be defined as having a real job and being 100% financially cut off from Mom and Dad. Sounds fun right?? Ya I didn't think so...
Fun or not, we must all embrace that day at some point when we say "Hello Real World." For most of us that day is fast approaching, or is already behind us. As a wised and seasoned veteran of entering the Real World...ya right...I thought I would pass on some advice.
Many friends have asked me for advice as they begin to prepare for the transition from college to life after college (adulthood). It is scary and believe me I had my fair share of breakdowns. The tales of unemployment and a jobless economy only made my fears worse. Thanks to the guidance of my parents (who at the time I swore were out of touch of the job economy of today) I made it through alive.
So here's what I did to successfully transition to adulthood and land the "perfect" job:
Step 1: Define "perfect" job
Some of you may have a dream job in mind, others (like me) haven't got a clue. Either way you will have to embrace the fact the odds of landing your perfect job, 6 figures and an expense account, right out of college is probably unrealistic. Sad I know. But that doesn't mean you can't focus on other aspects that you strongly desire, but keep it simple and loose. Be willing to adjust when an opportunity arises. For me, I wanted a job that would allow for a high interaction level with people and travel. I did not want to sit at a desk all day.
Step 2: Start early
While it sometimes may feel like you are alone in this search for employment, you aren't. There are thousands of others also looking for that same perfect job...your job. This means you need to start early. By early, I mean the start of the school year, September. Earlier may be better depending on your field of interest. I started my search the September before I graduated, by March I had the job.
Step 3: Polish the resume
This one takes time and it really is never fun. However, the resume is crucial. It is your first impression on a potential employer. Take time to develop a well structured and thought out resume. Review it multiple times before submission and ask others to review it as well. Be sure to ask someone other than Mom to review it as well because let's face it Mom doesn't necessarily have the most critical eye when it comes to her children. (But we love her more because of it) Keep the resume to one page and don't use one of the Microsoft templates. Use action words and call on hard numbers as much as possible.
Step 4: Check out Career Center resources
It is more than likely your school has an on-campus Career Center. They can often provide valuable information and assistance during your job search. Look for free guides and other printed resources. Look for an online job listing site where employers can post available jobs. These people are often looking for students. This means they are aware that you still have to graduate and aren't looking for immediate start dates. I did most of my job searching on the Career Center website.
Step 5: Be patient and persistent
It is a long process, especially when you first get started. I went through all of the thousands of postings when I started and it took time. The site is constantly updated with new job listings, so it is crucial to keep going back every few days to look at recently added opportunities. Apply for any job you would be interested in learning more about. Don't be afraid of rejection! It is part of the process and you'll get used it, I promise! You can't expect to be a perfect fit for every job and every company (even though your mom says otherwise).
So I hope this helps some of you that are freaking out about life after college. Just take things a day at time and stay organized. And PLEASE don't forget to enjoy the time you have left in college!
About Me
- TMI
- I am Cal Berkeley grad living in Southern California where I work in the tech industry. A lot of things have changed in my life in the past few years but I love my life and I'm fully committed to living it fabulously.
Wednesday, January 26, 2011
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
Around the World in 2011
In the spirit of New Year resolutions, I have some travel goals set for 2011. My job has me traveling around the world to some awesome places. And now that I have disposable income to boot, my list of desired vacations has become quite extensive. However, I have pulled myself back from lala land to make this list as I realize that neither my money or vacation days are endless...I wish. So while I may want to go to many more places, this is a more realistic list of places I plan to visit in 2011.
1. Las Vegas - DONE
As a new 21 year old, this trip is an obvious. Seeing as I have just completed two trips to Vegas since the start of the year. I can cross this off...sort of. I would like to go back when the weather slightly north of the 25-30 degrees it has been the past two weeks. So May in Vegas with Fab Five?? Sounds like a plan to me!
(I took this picture!)
2. Europe: Paris, Munich, Nuremberg, Salzburg
This trip is almost totally planned. My job is sending me to France and Germany for distributor visits and a tradeshow. The show is in Nuremberg and I'll be making weekend trips to Munich and Salzburg despite the snow I'm promised will be covering the snow. In France, I'll be staying near Paris with a weekend there. If I'm lucky I may hit the south of France to meet with customers! Cote D'Azur anyone? I love my job!
3. New York
I am absolutely dying to go to New York City. Visit the land of Sex and the City, sounds like perfection! I have been trying to convince my mom to plan the trip to see the most amazing city in the world...or so I'm assuming. Perhaps this can be my trip for July??
4. Hawaii
Two best friends with places in Hawaii? Check! This trip is bound to happen at least once so Hawaiian tan here I come!
5. Chicago
I am working on getting this city onto our show schedule for 2011. This would mean a week in Chicago (or more). Hopefully in a warmer time of year as my tolerance for cold caps out at about 20 degrees. This will probably only happen if it's for work, but a girl can dream.
These are the goals, but certainly not the end of it. My year will also likely include trips to Boston, Phoenix, Seattle, Southern California, Texas and a few other places. If I'm lucky a trip to London might be thrown with a side trip to Ireland. Fingers crossed! Happy Travels!
1. Las Vegas - DONE
As a new 21 year old, this trip is an obvious. Seeing as I have just completed two trips to Vegas since the start of the year. I can cross this off...sort of. I would like to go back when the weather slightly north of the 25-30 degrees it has been the past two weeks. So May in Vegas with Fab Five?? Sounds like a plan to me!
(I took this picture!)
2. Europe: Paris, Munich, Nuremberg, Salzburg
This trip is almost totally planned. My job is sending me to France and Germany for distributor visits and a tradeshow. The show is in Nuremberg and I'll be making weekend trips to Munich and Salzburg despite the snow I'm promised will be covering the snow. In France, I'll be staying near Paris with a weekend there. If I'm lucky I may hit the south of France to meet with customers! Cote D'Azur anyone? I love my job!
3. New York
I am absolutely dying to go to New York City. Visit the land of Sex and the City, sounds like perfection! I have been trying to convince my mom to plan the trip to see the most amazing city in the world...or so I'm assuming. Perhaps this can be my trip for July??
4. Hawaii
Two best friends with places in Hawaii? Check! This trip is bound to happen at least once so Hawaiian tan here I come!
5. Chicago
I am working on getting this city onto our show schedule for 2011. This would mean a week in Chicago (or more). Hopefully in a warmer time of year as my tolerance for cold caps out at about 20 degrees. This will probably only happen if it's for work, but a girl can dream.
These are the goals, but certainly not the end of it. My year will also likely include trips to Boston, Phoenix, Seattle, Southern California, Texas and a few other places. If I'm lucky a trip to London might be thrown with a side trip to Ireland. Fingers crossed! Happy Travels!
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
New Years Resolution - 2011
So it's stereotypical...who cares. My resolutions will kick your resolutions a**. I am generally absolutely horrible with resolutions. Last year I didn't even try. The year before, I resolved to start working out once a week. ONCE A WEEK! I failed after two weeks. Then I told myself the year doesn't start until the semester starts in mid-January. So I really failed after 5 weeks, but I only worked out twice. Like I said....not very good. But might as well try...
Resolution #1: Work out twice a week.
So based on the previous paragraph you guys are already doubting me. However, I would like to say that I have been getting pretty good at working out a few times a week. And if Brianne would move in with me I know I would be even better! Especially if we lived in those fancy apartments with the gym downstairs!!
Here's the catch with this one: weeks when I'm traveling don't count. I know, I know it sounds like cheating, but its too hard.
Problem 1: More stuff to pack. I already bring to much (but getting better).
Problem 2: Hotel gym. Enough said
Problem 3: I'm usually exhausted when traveling because its for work
Problem 4: Way better stuff to do. Why work out when I can sight see!
Resolution #2: Eat better.
I know my resolutions are starting to sound cliche. I really need this one though. I need more iron and fiber. Really this one actually means learn to vegetables, but that makes me sound like I'm 5. I'm 21 and only eat carrots and lettuce. And potatoes, which my dad says doesn't count. I think it does, I mean it does common from the ground.
Resolution #3: Leave the country.
Don't worry, I'll come back. I have never left the United States....ever. It's sad I know. But this is the year! I know it is because I leave in February...but more to come on my travel resolutions for 2011 later.
Resolution #4: Add 2 more pieces to my Tiffany's collection.
You should know by now about my not-so-secret love affair with Tiffany's. My boyfriend (and his wallet) hates that I'm in this relationship. But I'm hooked. So this year the goal is two more pieces! Which is down one from 2010. I've already picked out the first piece:
I'm hoping Tiffany's comes out with some new pieces that I choose from for my second item!
Resolution #5: Christian Louboutins!
I need these! So what if they cost $600. They are BEAUTIFUL!
Resolution #6: Don't get married.
Finally one I know I can actually keep. Marriage = Just plain scary. Don't tell me I'm jaded...I'm not. I'm 21.
Alright well that's all I got for now. Tomorrow I leave for my second trip to Vegas this week! Woo hoo!!
Resolution #1: Work out twice a week.
So based on the previous paragraph you guys are already doubting me. However, I would like to say that I have been getting pretty good at working out a few times a week. And if Brianne would move in with me I know I would be even better! Especially if we lived in those fancy apartments with the gym downstairs!!
Here's the catch with this one: weeks when I'm traveling don't count. I know, I know it sounds like cheating, but its too hard.
Problem 1: More stuff to pack. I already bring to much (but getting better).
Problem 2: Hotel gym. Enough said
Problem 3: I'm usually exhausted when traveling because its for work
Problem 4: Way better stuff to do. Why work out when I can sight see!
Resolution #2: Eat better.
I know my resolutions are starting to sound cliche. I really need this one though. I need more iron and fiber. Really this one actually means learn to vegetables, but that makes me sound like I'm 5. I'm 21 and only eat carrots and lettuce. And potatoes, which my dad says doesn't count. I think it does, I mean it does common from the ground.
Resolution #3: Leave the country.
Don't worry, I'll come back. I have never left the United States....ever. It's sad I know. But this is the year! I know it is because I leave in February...but more to come on my travel resolutions for 2011 later.
Resolution #4: Add 2 more pieces to my Tiffany's collection.
You should know by now about my not-so-secret love affair with Tiffany's. My boyfriend (and his wallet) hates that I'm in this relationship. But I'm hooked. So this year the goal is two more pieces! Which is down one from 2010. I've already picked out the first piece:
I'm hoping Tiffany's comes out with some new pieces that I choose from for my second item!
Resolution #5: Christian Louboutins!
I need these! So what if they cost $600. They are BEAUTIFUL!
Resolution #6: Don't get married.
Finally one I know I can actually keep. Marriage = Just plain scary. Don't tell me I'm jaded...I'm not. I'm 21.
Alright well that's all I got for now. Tomorrow I leave for my second trip to Vegas this week! Woo hoo!!
Sunday, January 2, 2011
Wrapping Up 2010
So I know I am a little late on this post but I have been recovering after an epic trip to Las Vegas with my girls for New Years Eve. This time of year (err...a few weeks ago) there are a million lists that countdown or recap the highlights of 2010 and a million award shows that recognize the best of 2010. So as we pass into 2011 and leave behind 2010, I felt this post would only be appropriate.
So here it is...my tribute to 2010, a recap of my favorite things from 2010!
Anthem of the Year: Dynamite by Taio Cruz
Who doesn't want to throw their hands up in the air....enough said
Country Song of Year: Cowgirls Don't Cry by Brooks & Dunn
This was a close runner up for anthem of the year. But sadly I was not a fan of this song when I first heard it, but after hearing it in concert I quickly fell in love. Which leads me to...
Best Concert of the Year: Last Rodeo - Brooks & Dunn
I went to a fair number of concerts this year: Tim McGraw/Lady Antebellum, Toby Keith/Trace Adkins, Craig Morgan. But Brooks and Dunn's farewell tour was by far the best. I have forever been a fan but never saw them in concert. They were absolutely amazing. Plus Jason Aldean was the opening act to boot. I cannot wait to see him in another show, he was great. My only regret was that it was the last concert for Brooks & Dunn. I for one would not be sad to see a reunion tour in the very near future!!
Best Movie of the Year: Sex and the City 2
I don't care what you or the critics say, I will always love any movie with the Sex and the City girls. THEY ARE FABULOUS!
Best Real Housewives Season:: Beverly Hills
The newest installment to the Real Housewives franchise is fantastic! Trust me I would know, I watch all of them. Some more religiously than others. Washington DC, the other addition, was a serious let down and a total bore. I love the OC ladies, but the Beverly Hills season edged them out.
Best New TV Show: Pretty Little Liars AND The Event
This one is a tie. It was simply too hard to pick a winner. Both series are fantastic. I cannot wait for new episodes of Pretty Little Liars to start tomorrow night!! For some who can predict the endings to most things, I still have not figured out Who is A and what The Event is....
Favorite Trip: Boston
This was a difficult choice as I took a lot of really cool trips this year, but I think Boston takes it. Seattle was a close second, followed by some cool trips to Disneyland and Vegas. Although fell between 2010 and 2011 so not sure if it counts...but more to come on that later!! Boston is an amazing city with tons to see and places to go. I loved and I cannot wait to go back in September!
Male Celebrity of the Year: Jesse Palmer
The Saturday morning college football commentator on ABC is definitely the man of the year. Gorgeous and a football player...see for yourself
Female Celebrity of the Year: Lauren Conrad
Even though she went a little MIA this year, at least from TV, I am still a fan. In 2010 she had not one, but TWO Cosmopolitan covers, three books, and two clothing lines from which I have a skirt still waiting to be hemmed. This girl does it all!!
Now for the highlights of my 2010. It was a big year for me with a lot of life changes. So here's a rundown of the top five events of my past year...
5. Living Out of a Suitcase
My new job has me traveling all the time on top of my personal adventures. While it may not seem that cool to some of you. I love it!! I get to see some of the coolest places in the world at no cost to me! Love my job!
4. Turning 21!!
Finally! I was the last to turn 21. Even though I was supporting myself, I spent 5 months unable to purchase a drink with dinner. But that's all behind me now!!!
3. My First Big Girl Job!
The difficult economy makes this an obvious one. The fabulousness of job makes this even better. I get to travel all the time and interact with cool people...dream job!
2. Graduating from Cal!
In May, I graduated from UC Berkeley after three years with a BA in Sociology and Media Studies. It was a whirlwind three years but nonetheless amazing.
1. Becoming an Auntie!
My beautiful nephew, Liam Patrick, was born on October 2nd. He is growing like crazy and is the most adorable boy in the world.
So here it is...my tribute to 2010, a recap of my favorite things from 2010!
Anthem of the Year: Dynamite by Taio Cruz
Who doesn't want to throw their hands up in the air....enough said
Country Song of Year: Cowgirls Don't Cry by Brooks & Dunn
This was a close runner up for anthem of the year. But sadly I was not a fan of this song when I first heard it, but after hearing it in concert I quickly fell in love. Which leads me to...
Best Concert of the Year: Last Rodeo - Brooks & Dunn
I went to a fair number of concerts this year: Tim McGraw/Lady Antebellum, Toby Keith/Trace Adkins, Craig Morgan. But Brooks and Dunn's farewell tour was by far the best. I have forever been a fan but never saw them in concert. They were absolutely amazing. Plus Jason Aldean was the opening act to boot. I cannot wait to see him in another show, he was great. My only regret was that it was the last concert for Brooks & Dunn. I for one would not be sad to see a reunion tour in the very near future!!
Best Movie of the Year: Sex and the City 2
I don't care what you or the critics say, I will always love any movie with the Sex and the City girls. THEY ARE FABULOUS!
Best Real Housewives Season:: Beverly Hills
The newest installment to the Real Housewives franchise is fantastic! Trust me I would know, I watch all of them. Some more religiously than others. Washington DC, the other addition, was a serious let down and a total bore. I love the OC ladies, but the Beverly Hills season edged them out.
Best New TV Show: Pretty Little Liars AND The Event
This one is a tie. It was simply too hard to pick a winner. Both series are fantastic. I cannot wait for new episodes of Pretty Little Liars to start tomorrow night!! For some who can predict the endings to most things, I still have not figured out Who is A and what The Event is....
Favorite Trip: Boston
This was a difficult choice as I took a lot of really cool trips this year, but I think Boston takes it. Seattle was a close second, followed by some cool trips to Disneyland and Vegas. Although fell between 2010 and 2011 so not sure if it counts...but more to come on that later!! Boston is an amazing city with tons to see and places to go. I loved and I cannot wait to go back in September!
Male Celebrity of the Year: Jesse Palmer
The Saturday morning college football commentator on ABC is definitely the man of the year. Gorgeous and a football player...see for yourself
Female Celebrity of the Year: Lauren Conrad
Even though she went a little MIA this year, at least from TV, I am still a fan. In 2010 she had not one, but TWO Cosmopolitan covers, three books, and two clothing lines from which I have a skirt still waiting to be hemmed. This girl does it all!!
Now for the highlights of my 2010. It was a big year for me with a lot of life changes. So here's a rundown of the top five events of my past year...
5. Living Out of a Suitcase
My new job has me traveling all the time on top of my personal adventures. While it may not seem that cool to some of you. I love it!! I get to see some of the coolest places in the world at no cost to me! Love my job!
4. Turning 21!!
Finally! I was the last to turn 21. Even though I was supporting myself, I spent 5 months unable to purchase a drink with dinner. But that's all behind me now!!!
3. My First Big Girl Job!
The difficult economy makes this an obvious one. The fabulousness of job makes this even better. I get to travel all the time and interact with cool people...dream job!
2. Graduating from Cal!
In May, I graduated from UC Berkeley after three years with a BA in Sociology and Media Studies. It was a whirlwind three years but nonetheless amazing.
1. Becoming an Auntie!
My beautiful nephew, Liam Patrick, was born on October 2nd. He is growing like crazy and is the most adorable boy in the world.
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